The benefits of paying it forward
CLEAVED in The Weekend Australian
Thank you everyone for your great response to the two excerpts from my memoir CLEAVED – A story of loss legs and finding family that were published in the Arts section of The Weekend Australian on April 13.
In the past week I’ve been overwhelmed. (Nearly 100 downloads!)
My gratitude to Literary Editor Caroline Overington for giving CLEAVED such a generous run and to readers for their warm responses.
‘I can’t put it down. It’s warm, honest, brilliant…‘ – Jan Harkin, Melbourne
THE STORY
THE STORY

CLEAVED is the story of my sister Juliana and me, foot soldiers in the family war, each cleaved to a different parent from birth – and of the shocking betrayal that blew me and my mother apart from the rest of the family for decades.
It’s also the story resilience, a unique account of growing up with Milroy’s Disease, a rare genetic form of the progressive and incurable swelling disease that meant my right leg was a perfectly proportioned bigger version of my left.
There was no cure and no name for it so it was largely ignored. “Just tell them you were born that way,” my mother said, when I was taunted at school.
My leg problem was always secondary to the bigger family drama of family estrangement. The situation was normal even if I wasn’t.
Cleaved is a coming-of-age story, a story of forgiveness and compassion, both a tragedy and a triumph – and one which reader’s love. Perfect for Book Clubs.
See Book Club discussion questions here:https://janecafarella.com.au/blog/
Cleaved is available as PDF download here:
How to download:
- Click the download button above and follow the prompts to pay.
- Check your email (and spam) for your receipt.
- Click the word “download” on the receipt.
- The PDF will appear in your “downloads” file on your computer.
- Save it to the file of your choice – e.g. documents. If you leave it in “downloads”, when you open it again, it will regard it as another download and ask you to pay, as there is a download limit of one copy per purchase. If this happens, don’t pay again! Email me at jane.cafarella@gmail.com and I will help you.
REGISTER YOUR INTEREST FOR THE PRINT VERSION
I’ve had some inquiries about a print version, so I’m exploring options for this.
If you are interested in buying a print version of CLEAVED please register your interest by emailing me at jane.cafarella@gmail.com with the word YES in the subject line.
Of course, you’re welcome to comment further in the body of the email if you wish.
What readers like you are saying about CLEAVED:
I have just finished reading your book. Beautifully written… I loved the ending. It was a story of forgiveness. Of course I am crying as I write this note. My heart has been deeply touched by your story. –Eileen Dieleson, Perth, Western Australia
I practically inhaled your book – I found it such a fascinating story, beautifully written. Thank you to you and Juliana for sharing so generously and openly. – Jane Haley, Hobart, Tasmania
…I am transfixed. I think it might reach into my heart. I can’t put it down – Marie McNamara, Newstead, Victoria
Fabulous!….Reluctantly putting your book aside to help with dinner – Denise Wheelan, Castlemaine, Victoria
Shamefully, I’ve been lying around all day finishing it, cause I couldn’t put it down. – Suzanne Walshe, Maldon, Victoria
…an incredible story. Beautifully written, … Personally, I found it hard to put down… – Bronnie Dean, Harcourt, Victoria
…a courageous search for a truth that reads like a compelling mystery. – Angela Ryan, South Melbourne, Victoria
Have your read CLEAVED? Would you like to comment? Send your review here jane.cafarella@gmail.com or post on The ABC Facebook Book Club or Goodreads.







